Emotional healing at the subconscious mind body level.

Emotional healing at the subconscious mind body level.
Permanent emotional shift therapy.

Case Study using Hypno Wellness Therapy  with Client:  Arthur – age 63 years old – Male

Presenting Issue:  Arthur is a successful Director of a very big business, multinational operation Engineering based. Confident man, sure of himself and a gentleman.

Arthur’s presenting issue is that he has a wall up in regards to relationships, he notices it when emotional events have happened and moves quickly into survival mode and negates allowing himself to feel connected to the people or the event.     

Arthur has also been made aware of this behavior by the female partners he has had in his life and would like to be able to feel authentic love and emotions with people, especially his female partner.

Memories have been identified:
Arthur has memories charged with emotions of fear Suds level 10+ and sadness Suds 6+.
SUDS - Subjective Units of Distress

The first memory Arthur Identified / remembered is when his father locked him in the garden shed for not going to school and left him in there the whole day.

The second memory Arthur has is being chased by his dad and eventually caught and whipped with river reeds until he was cut and bruised.

First is the explanation of what we are going to do as a therapy session, using NLP, Hypnotic conversational language and Hypno Wellness Therapy: I explain to Arthur that I will be using a technique very similar to acupuncture and without the need for needles, I explained that it will help to let go of the negative emotions associated with the memories of the events so that they do not impact him anymore… the memories will become insignificant to both the conscious and subconscious minds.

Arthur is very open and willing to start his session.

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Working first on the memory and feelings of being locked in the shed:  
Age between 6-7 yrs old

The memory starts with Arthur leaving home, he didn’t like going to school and used to double back home after mum and dad would leave to go for work.

This particular day he went home only to find dad still home and got locked in the garden shed until dad returned home again. The shed is dark, small and very basic. Its black dark and no light enters the shed.

As Arthur remembers the memory his first reaction is a freeze response as he opens the door and dad is home. First emotion is FEAR.

Suds level of fear is 10+, belief is “I’m in big trouble now” Feeling like he is glued to the ground, tightness in chest and weak in the legs… Feeling like I’m stuck.  

After applying Hypno wellness therapy;  the fear is zero and his chest and legs feel normal again. The memory continues; father now takes him out to the garden shed and says “I’ve got to get to work and since you are not going to school you can stay in here for the day”.

As the shed door is closed and locked from the outside Arthur is just sitting in the shed feeling alone, Suds level 7 on feeling alone, no emotions he replies “I’m actually feeling quite calm about the situation.  ( as this memory has been thin sliced in segments and the remembered emotions discharged along the way… at this stage the mind and body can remain calm and relaxed..)

As the memory progresses Arthur says “dad is home and opening the shed now” There are no emotions, Arthur is looking at his dad and dad looking back at him.. 

I asked Arthur, is there something dad could have said here to change the way this occurs now… Arthur said yes,  I requested that Arthur create the conversation in his mind / memory and hear what his father should have said… Arthur broke into tears as anything said at that moment was better than the nothing which was not said.

Emotion is sadness, SUDS 8 feeling it in heart, after applying Hypno wellness therapy  the sadness is gone… I ask Arthur if a hug from dad in this situation would be good, he said yes….  I asked who is going to do the hugging… he said “ it will have to be me”  as Arthur imagines hugging his father he sheds more tears… only these are tears of happiness and he now says “I feel connected to my dad now”.

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The second memory that Arthur wants to work with is when he was being chased by his dad and eventually caught and whipped with river reeds until he was cut and bruised.
Age between 12-13 yrs old.

The memory starts as he was down by the river side on their family property and had been told by dad not to go down to the river side without an adult…  Dad catches them and yells at them “what are you doing down there, I said not to be here”

In the session – real time - Arthur looked confused… I asked what’s going on? Why does your face look confused?  Arthur replied “ I know I’ve been caught but I don’t want to run away from dad “ I asked well what are you going to do… Arthur replies “ I’m going to walk up to dad and say I’m sorry for being down by the river “  I said good and suggested … look him in the eyes when you apologise.

Arthur does this, his father in Arthur’s mind now just stands there and looks back at him but doesn’t react and finishes off the memory walking in front of his farther all the way home, when they get home I asked Arthur if he feels this would be a good time for another hug from dad? Arthur replies “yes” he says “I feel confident, warm all over and safe”

Subconscious shift has occurred in Arthur's mind, energy and thoughts;

The second memory had changed all on its own without having to do much to it, once Arthur had been present to his dad in the first memory and connected to dad, the second memory didn’t make sense the way it originally occurred and he was re-writing the memory as he was remembering it.   Arthur’s brain created a new altered memory based on a shift that we made in his previous memory.  An emotional mind / body healing has occurred.


At the completion of our session, I asked Arthur:
Is it okay to hug people? He said yes

Is it okay to open up to people with your feelings? He said yes

How do you feel right now? He said, warm, safe, confident and exhausted.

Job Done:

For Arthur connecting to people was difficult because subconsciously it was unsafe due to a hand full of scary experiences with his father at a very young age.  The result of this session and emotional shift will be that Arthur won’t keep up a wall when wanting to get close to people, he will feel safe and confident in all kinds of relationships… especially romantic ones.

 

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